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Managing your Karma... should we ? or leave it?

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The moment the phrase Karma Management is uttered, the idea of "struggle" automatically creeps in. Why ? Probably whenever something needs to be managed, either it's a crisis or a situation which can turn into crisis. Thus, it begins with a critical situation or atleast an idea of it. Hmm...so what is the solution? Is it better to live the Karma or manage it? Well, to each his/her own. There can't be a straight answer to it. Like for Alvira, a high spirited enthusiastic not so young woman got her karma of a loyal partner so she happily accepted it and "lived the karma". On the other hand, the loyal partner showing not much interest in planning the future or discussing the routine mundane things can be a pain. So she chose to "manage this karma". Will that be easy? Again the word "easy" would mean different to different persons. Alvira has had a very interesting (full of twists & turns) life till her current age of 39 yea...
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Couple Equation (+/-) hi...just wondering how a couple who have just started their journey gets absorbed in the Group consciousness of 'how to put their spouse down". One verbal volley after the other...hitting like a seasoned hunter (read a long time husband/wife) proves how the primitive thought processes/hidden genetic coding or else just the need of "conforming to the societal norms" that wives are the punishing souls and husbands are forever the punished and victimised ones. I am surprised to see people who end up living their entire 2/3rd of their lives with persons they detest all the time in public or in their heart or both. I am completely at un-ease due to this today. Why can't people just be the real they are...? Why do they need to put down their wives to enjoy the centre stage in a group familial or friendly? Even the persons who are generally happy with their respective partners, noticed they too start recounting all those "...