Life is Beautiful...Live!

Today I am so very thankful to one of my long distance clients while working with whom I realized to the fact that I was allowing a big chunk of my energy dissipating for a silly reason. Also thankful to the person who was the major sucker and appeared in the whole saga as the protector. On confronting the sucker showed the true colors. Thank God after a few hours of being startled I came back to sanity and for the first time in the current life chose not to let it continue. Very happy and energized to feel my complete energy once again. It's good to share but allowing somebody to use your things even knowledge (based on your own research) stealthily so is allowing abuse in a hidden form. Have allowed this forever. Not anymore. Was wondering, it feels nice to think "oh my compassion was being misused" but is that all. Am I still so naive and moronic to let it happen. I think No! It's my need to keep company that I allow such suckers in my periphery. No more. Rememb...

 Yes...Alvira is bored of the mundane life and being blamed for all the wrongs around her. She has decided to take a break from being nice and kind to others. Time to give time and attention to herself. Now she has started to look at options to kindle her joy element. High time...lookie lookie inwards and towards herself to garner happiness for herself instead of looking outside. Now Alvira is busy as usual but not finding faults with herself rather she whole heartedly rejected all that and all those who find fault with her. She is past the "pleasing all" phase of her life...believing forever. Her focus is to be able to do things for herself and remove the blots from her soul due to blames put on her. She is breaking free. 

The moment the phrase Karma Management is uttered, the idea of "struggle" automatically creeps in. Why ? Probably whenever something needs to be managed, either it's a crisis or a situation which can turn into crisis. Thus, it begins with a critical situation or atleast an idea of it. Hmm...so what is the solution? Is it better to live the Karma or manage it? Well, to each his/her own. There can't be a straight answer to it. Like for Alvira, a high spirited enthusiastic not so young woman got her karma of a loyal partner so she happily accepted it and "lived the karma". On the other hand, the loyal partner showing not much interest in planning the future or discussing the routine mundane things can be a pain. So she chose to "manage this karma". Will that be easy? Again the word "easy" would mean different to different persons. Alvira has had a very interesting (full of twists & turns) life till her current age of 39 yea...

Couple Equation (+/-) hi...just wondering how a couple who have just started their journey gets absorbed in the Group consciousness of 'how to put their spouse down". One verbal volley after the other...hitting like a seasoned hunter (read a long time husband/wife) proves how the primitive thought processes/hidden genetic coding or else just the need of "conforming to the societal norms" that wives are the punishing souls and husbands are forever the punished and victimised ones. I am surprised to see people who end up living their entire 2/3rd of their lives with persons they detest all the time in public or in their heart or both. I am completely at un-ease due to this today. Why can't people just be the real they are...? Why do they need to put down their wives to enjoy the centre stage in a group familial or friendly? Even the persons who are generally happy with their respective partners, noticed they too start recounting all those "...

Forgive & let go... Now let's talk about apologising or seeking forgiveness. People often mistake 'forgiving' with 'being submissive' or 'losing your ground' or 'accepting non-sense' repeatedly and things like these. Well, highly mistaken! My apologies to those but friends...'forgiveness is not a tool used by meek or weak people rather it's the strength of a person. By forgiving, you save your time and energy on something which is least important in the actual mechanics. That's right. But if you allow a person or situation to abuse you n the name of 'forgiveness' then it's your choice not that person or situation. Forgiveness is acceptance coupled with letting go. Letting go in effect shall entail to the fact that either that person/situation changes or changes. It implies that either the person/situation is transformed or is removed from your life. Be mindful of not allowing anybody to trespass in your sane space jus...

Closing conversations... Avoid making conversations just for the purpose of doing it. They never lead anywhere. Sometimes silence is surely the best substitute. Be mindful of your itch to express in case you can make out that it's not going to make any sense to the other person. Else, all you will be left with is unsaid and misunderstood words and leave an undesired impression or a scar on your heart/mind/or wherever you wish to forbear the fruits of this unwanted chit-chat. Be sensible enough to decide when to stop and when to open your mind. Never ever take the 'understanding' of others of 'you' for granted. It can vary from person to person and even with the same person from time to time. Ask yourself, do you really need to continue this conversation...trust the time that you put in taking a pause to ask this is very meagre in comparison to the time you are going to spend in undoing the 'unwanted chat' and furthermore sometimes you can't even...