Happy meter

Your slice of (un)happiness... at a glance & deep

What is true or complete happiness....
One in the divine/To be able to share your joy & abundance with your family?
or something likewise
Well...let's see what does family mean to us..."Vasudhev Kutumbkam" (the whole world is my family myth) or your family only your blood(y) kith and kin.
Depending on this you will have your slice of happiness or unhappiness.

As many people you have to deal with...that shall lead to your 'happy meter"

                   

So... what do you think?... won't that be simpler if your happiness if at all has to depend on anything then it's only on one person and that is 'you' Only???

Hmm...let's see if it is possible to stay that way... happy or unhappy... with yourself

Surely... you are the happiest "if " you do not have unrealistic expectations from self like driving to the moon in 5 minutes and getting the stars when you want etc.
Ok ok ... jokes apart... why would you rather not be happy with yourself ? ... let's look at it this way.

What can make you unhappy with yourself ? 

1. Appearance ? ... well everybody is unique & complete in their own way
2. Career ? ... hmm... does your career ONLY define you ? ... come on get real... nobody is concerned how good or bad you do in your office
3. Family ? ... Pl watch... that means other people ... not you
4. Social status... this is biggest facade... come on... face it ... you are what you are
5. Goals ?... achieved some/will achieve some... rest shall also come...be wise not dumb
6. Friends ?... mind you..that means other people... oh ok... you mean the number of friends...
Believe me... one 'good one' is much better than the hoards of them... they can be actually a pain in the neck or 'as... sometimes... So get over and move on.
7. Wishes unfulfilled... life's too short & transient for all of them to be fulfilled... you are here today, gone tomorrow like the bubble in a puddle.
8. You don't have enough clothes...come on go out & see on the roads of any under-developed or developing countries...Shhh...even some of the so called developed ones too.
9. You don't enough to eat... you have?...that too in the comfort of your home or a place where you are living safely...that's more important... get in the gratefulness mode... life shall be easier
10. Your partner doesn't listen to you... well it was your choice to have this one... so if you can't meal with it...deal with it... don't stay stuck... proverbial Love may strike someday... make your efforts & move on from the situation not the person necessarily (it's your own reflection... find the cause not the shadow of it if you have the courage) ... No matter how many partners you change... situation's gonna be the same (generally)... exceptions exist!
11. Children?... Who are they?... if they are not yours...why are you concerned... if they are yours... you can't be concerned... they are as good or as bad as you ... Period!... stop the non-sense of driving yourself nuts. They are reminding you of something that you didnt mend & forgot. That's all.
12. Anything else... that might have been missed ... Pl feel free to mention... shall help many to find a reason to move on in life from that too... in turn... removing one more block to happiness.
13. Not mentioned money...because I believe all of you have seen it or know it already.."Money can't buy happiness"... so let's not invest more of our energy there.
etc etc.

So what are we left with now to deal with.... not much ... feeling lighter?

Good!
So let's focus on something new now... what takes away this lightness or even better what all can aid us in maintaining this lightness.

Not just mentally... even physically
(Good news for all those people who have extra pounds to let go...get rid of all the crappy & junk emotions... your diets & exercise will shown better results.)

Next post shall have more info & detail on this... till then... just live light with all your might... stay bright & live better not a battling knight.

Blessings
MNA

Thank You...

Cliched but true... (composed sometime in 2013, posting now...)

"Gratitude to those who were good to you ; Forgiveness to those who were not." 

We meet people for different reasons and a myriad seasons... Today who love you may not be there
with you tomorrow... the depth of one's character becomes evident in maintaining still a balanced view about them all.

This is no philosophy...I am living it since last 7 months...Seeing it every moment how people once swearing the moon for me are having a veiled view... whereas God stayed always... despite all the drama "God" , yes God appeared... he does appear like in my childhood stories that my granny told... when all so called friends just vanished... there came a oceanic wave of love from nowhere which just cleansed all the pain (I hid it but LOVE healed it)...

This LOVE so UNCONDITIONAL which I have been hearing about (more so) for the last 4 years... I believed it blindly and felt the feeling of betrayal for a while but the last few months  showed me so much of it that I never could imagine existed...and I am so humbled by the support and love extended by people far and wide... coming from people who really are angelic and true masters who make no claim of there solidarity with you but just come stand close to you to make you feel "You're fine"... " It shall be fine"... "God loves you"... "Come on buddy...keep the faith"... "Hey u know and I know you can do better than this"... " Hey let's look at future" ... "Come on wake up..it was always like dat, thank God u see it now"... "Hey you gave me strength, you cant be weak"... "Be ready, we r going for a party"... "All is well"... "Thank your stars...parasites have left you" ... "Come on love...it's time to celebrate"... "Hey man...I am so happy for you, you're free from shackles"... "these are my prayers answered for you"  they all showed me God in each cell in each atom... Some of them won't be there with me always. But they all appeared with amazing daze of God's love.
Today I thank them all once again for helping me reinforce..."Goodness stays unabated & is certainly rewarded and God's presence is uninterrupted"
I am truly blessed and lucky to have you all with me. God bless us all.
Thank you

Love - Craziness or Acceptance?

Love... normally known to be a 'spark'... 'funny smile'... 'unexplainable connect'... 'silly behaviour'... 'fun with the loved one'... hmm... kinda means differently to different persons. Some know it as 'pain'... 'problems'... 'reason for suffering'... 'ultimate mistake'... 'worst flaw'... 'a reason to be abused'

                           TO EACH HIS OWN... !!!

Love if complete...if only complete without any need of being completed by money, friend, spouse etc. can give the former expressions...the 'funny smile' etc. Otherwise sooner or sooner this so called Love will make one experience all kinds of 'pain'...'abuse'...n blah blah blah

So where is this eluding Love... it's within... if you have this Love for 'Self"... unconditionally just like we all have the impression of being loved by the ultimate energy of Creation...God/Creator/Source etc. then...ONLY then... this Love can be a reason for JOY... that is constant and permanent... lest... doom is forever looming...

Blast all the expectations...desires ... dreams.... all the bull shit of the crazy mind...and if you may want add the vulnerable heart... Get over sooner... wake up!!!... sooner you do...better u will live... if at all you wish to, else you gotta exist anyways... like a piece of furniture or a vegetable...lol... bdw... you may not get to make a choice...

Thus, Just learn to ACCEPT yourself the way you are... you are the physical creation and manifestation of two persons who might have created you by fluke or just an urge for a temporary pleasure... may be a temporary period of elusive Love

ACCEPT yourself... Coz you chose to live this life... you chose the particular womb... thus particular parents, relatives, neighbours, friends, teachers, colleagues, partners...personal as well as business...
So kindly come out of the amnesia and recall... you chose the mess you are in... No one can help you...

Just ACCEPT... yourself & your 'Self" ... well what you want to change in your life can happen only if you are in love with the being that you face in the mirror... coz you shall do something constructive only if you love yourself... otherwise you might just keep lying to self and others.

If you have any kind of problem... NOTE it ETCH it... you hate yourself... Simple!

Want some change... bring the change... LovE & AcCepT yourSelf no matter how I'mperfect you are today but do have the readiness to improve.

Love youself Completely & Improve daily.

Blessings
MNA